I was listening to a programme on a local Christian Radio station and the question was asked “why do marriages fail – what is a common cause” – the answer was quite simple:
“Before ones married each person only sees the best in each other and a few months after marriage each person starts seeing the worst in each other” – People then focus on the bad parts and forget all the good parts in each other.
So maybe to keep a healthy marriage – build on the good and together work on the bad but keep the focus on the good points.
True or not – you decide