Now this is something I been doing a lot of thinking off mainly because I have had my fair share of what we call "LIFE STORMS" and each one of us has experienced many different storms - it could be a loss of someone close to us, divorce, unemployment, debt, loss of home, depression, anxiety, weariness, worry, guilt and there are many more that one could mention but what I am curious about is how do we deal with our storms in life ?
We have heard the phrase " after every storm there is a rainbow" which I can agree with and I am sure there are many readers who do agree and some will disagree.
What I been curious about is how people deal with there "LIFE STORMS" - what do they do, how do they react and what happens when the storm has no rainbow ?
This is not an easy topic at all but with a bit of research this is what I have found that seems to come out with most people who have or are experiencing a storm:
Many people tend to try and resolve there problem or burdens by themselves - we like to be in charge as it is in our human nature - some try to get closer to God in bad times and that features with most people in times of trouble or need but when asked was God called upon during the good times most reason such words as "well things were going good and it was something I just forgot about" - so if we only reach out in bad times will that storm then end ?
I not sure as God does not just want our attention in a time of need - He wants us to believe and call upon Him at all times. We cant just go to God in bad times. (I must add that some people who do not know God, I do believe they can get a storm in life for the purpose of the grace of God as it enables Him to draw that person to Him which otherwise might never had happened).
Does God plot storms for us ? I not sure but in certain cases I could say yes as sometimes we need a lesson in order to get to God and to form a relationship with Him but not all the time.
A friend said to me once "its weird but I did not have so much problems in my life until I became a Christian" - have you heard that before ? many have and many have wondered why.
Many Christians have stated they know someone who does not believe and yet it seems as if they go through life without any problems. So why do we get such storms in our life ? how do we handle it ? how do we go forward ? how do we accept the circumstances ?
The Bible never says that life will be easy - that we must accept and we must also realise that this is all just temporary - we will loose our earthly life and we will have a time for everlasting joy and we will all rejoice in the everlasting life that awaits us in Heaven.
Most importantly we cant go through trials trying to fix it on our own - we have to at times admit we need help and we do have a shepherd who is there for us at all times - His name is Jesus and he will never forsake you.
MAX LUCADO has a great book titled "TRAVELLING LIGHT" and he refers to our burdens as "THE LUGGAGE OF LIFE"
THIS BOOK IS A MUST READ AND HE SHOWS US WHERE TO TURN TO HELP IN TIMES OF TROUBLE - HE REFERS US TO AN OLD FRIEND WHICH IS PSALM 23
Psalm 23
The Lord is my shepherd;
I shall not want
He makes me lie down in green pastures
He leads me beside still waters
He restores my soul
He leads me in paths of righteousness for His name's sake
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death
I will fear no evil
For You are with me
Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me
You prepare a table for me in the presence of my enemies
You anoint my head with oil
My cup runs over
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
All the days of my life
And I shall dwell in the house of the Lord
Forever
This psalm will help you to release the burdens of life
I have another 3 key words that I believe one has to remember as well and they are:
PATIENCE, FAITH and HOPE
They are all key factors but I do think the one we need to work hard at is PATIENCE and to realise God will sort things in His time and when the timing is right for us. PATIENCE is not always easy.
A PROMISE FROM GOD
Hebrews 13:6 - The Lord is my helper, so I will not be afraid.
For everyone out there experiencing a storm my wish is that you keep your FAITH, have PATIENCE and never loose HOPE and may God show you your rainbow after the storm and remember to
PRAY CONSISTENTLY - NEVER STOP PRAYING
My prayer for you
Dear God almighty, creator of heaven and earth I know that You are there at all times and I pray that you will provide those in need including myself with the help and the patience to endure the hard times we might be going through at present - I pray dear Lord Jesus that you will uphold me and my friends and everyone out there in there time of need. We place our burdens in front of you Lord as we know we cant solve it on our own - Only You Lord can help us and You know what our needs are at this time and I pray that you will guide us continuously as we reach out to You our God for help - Your will be done on earth as it is in Heaven - this I pray in Jesus name AMEN.